I finally ordered the yarn for the shawl - Helen's Lace, it says it is 20 stitches per 4" so perhaps it is not as fine as I had thought.  We shall see, now on to some of those other projects

......maybe finish the sweater, just needs a neck - Leif's hat just needs a top.  I am hoping to have the shawl started for my trip to Minneapolis at the end of August, should be fun!